".. .buy me some peanuts and crackerjack. I don't care if we never get back ... "
You feel the rush of Adrenaline. The whole body is filled with Quiver, your palms are sweaty and at intervals even the tone of your voice is three pitches higher. While this is the typical signs of love is not love-it's a day at the World Series game.
As a first date coach, I listen to the details on hundreds of my clients to date. Last year, took a client his date World Series games. He was so excited about the event to which he replied less than standard dating questions I ask in my sessions. All he knew was that the game was great! Fans were great! The food was fantastic! Beer was fantastic! And, perhaps, by default, his date was great! With such an electrifying atmosphere, of course, it can be any different conclusion. But a closer look at this home run date can reveal a foul ball.
Here are some reasons why:
Strike 1-Batter!
The first is about to get to know the other person in a comfortable atmosphere with confidence and ease. You can begin to investigate someone you would like to go out again. However, it is really not much "swing" in a conversation on this date because of the noise level. You are screaming at the top of your lungs-or at least everyone else is. There is absolutely no way to have a quiet get to know you "jokes here. And there is always the possibility that your outrageous behaviour that is released by the thrill of the game (or maybe lots of beer), your date first and lasting impression of you.
Strike 2-Swing Batter!
Baseball is not just an all American last time but it is also a great place to make a love connection. A company like New England came up with a big speed dating concept centered around baseball innings against a lot of home runs. You sit at home, sit next to a date and you want to join (or not) with them until the next inning. They guarantee 7 dates in the whole game. Studies show that a Ballgame is a good place for single ladies to meet legitimate guys. There will be plenty of these guys at the World Series games but you will be bound with your guy or girl on a first date without even knowing if there's any chemistry. One of my clients had secured her tickets for big game and Yes, she intended to go read more…!
Foul Ball-this is easy. Your team lose-well, knowing some baseball fans-exit from the stadium would be pretty nasty. Not a good day's first experience at all.
Strike 3-you Outta here!
OK, the game is over and you team wins. The thrill of the game was electrifying. There were even Fireworks! All are high fiving, hugging, and lip-lock with total strangers. Your city is in a State of pandemonium. You go boy! With a date of this caliber, you will have the field way high. Not many others will be able to top that. You've really impressed your day-unless you got repulsively drunk. Either way, you will talk, text and tweet date pie and will definitely have earned know co ed ' advances to second day ' card. But now, I got to wondering-do you have something just so spectacular is planned for your next date? If you do not ... then "its 1, 2, 3 strikes your out to the old ball game!" GO TEAM!
Cathy Bishop is a relationship coach and creator of dating 500 seminar series.
She is a consultant for busy professionals dating in Philly, Delaware and New Jersey. Cathy spend time one on one with their clients as she listened to every aspect of life, dating, and contributes to co-create great date for tomorrow, next week or next month. For a free dating strategy session, contact Cathy today.
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